hard to love

women are moody. fact. women are always right. not a fact, however, i feel that if you know what is best you'll find someway to make them feel that that is actually the case (maybe not entirely...but enough). it's like those shows on TLC or HGTV where they are interviewing the couple; "so what do you want this room to look like?" "me? what do I want? eh, happy wife, happy life" #sorryimnotsorry #thatisagoodanswer


now, i will say that i appreciate someone with an opinion, maybe even if it is a different opinion than what i have (sometimes)..but, feeling like you are always on the same page with another is crucial. it, to me, is what makes one say "that's my best friend" not, "we compliment each other". sure, complimenting each other is good, nice even... but no one wants to be a compliment...the want to be mandatory pieces of a two piece puzzle. you can't have a finished product without the other piece. that's not a compliment.. it is a necessary.  it is like i said, crucial.


maybe a little mix up from the standard, but i heard a song a while back, and it didn't really hit me until this morning...

Hard to Love
I am insensitive I have a tendency to pay more attention to the things that
I need.
Sometimes I drink too much, sometimes I test your trust, sometimes I dunno
Why you're staying with me?

I'm hard to love, hard to love, I don't make it easy, I couldn't do it if I
Stood where you stood
I'm hard to love, hard to love, you say that you need me, I don't deserve
It but I love that you love me. good.

I am a short fuse, I am a wrecking ball crashing into your heart like I do
You're like a Sunday morning full of grace and full of Jesus I wish that I
Could be more like you.
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I'm hard to love, hard to love, I don't make it easy, I couldn't do it if I
Stood where you stood, 
I'm hard to love, hard to love, you say that you need me, I don't deserve
It but I love that you love me. Goood
Love me good

Girl you've given me a million second chances and I don't ever wanna take
You for granted, I'm just a man, I'm just a man

Hard to love, hard to love, oh I don't make it easy and I couldn't do it if
I stood where you stood.
I'm hard to love, hard to love and you say that you need me, I don't
Deserve it but I love that you love me. good. (x2)

You love me good.