women

something struck me on the way down to south carolina this past week or so (ps. it is still amazing as ever..i'll get there, one day). anyway, women are a different species. women are competitive, driven, difficult, confusing, and usually hungry. not in the physical sense, but the "i want to succeed" sense. with that being said, each woman is incredibly similar in the way they think, they try and think and therefore the way they act. its absolutely hypnotizing to watch..especially as a woman myself. i still judge. but why the struggle...we all want and feel the same way..so what's the big deal after all? 


there is an old, well maybe old saying out there that women dress to impress ...well, other women. its a constant battlefield out there. is she skinnier than i, is she smarter, is she friendlier, or will she be more successful. there are questions like what i will look like when i am older, and what will i have accomplished. is being a mom enough? is climbing the corporate ladder more important? these are all questions that women today, and maybe always have asked themselves...and perhaps their closest girlfriends. there are civil rights movements, and well..there is title IX (look it up)... so again, what is the big deal?

women have a way of confiding in people, they are usually trusting... but not without putting up a guarded front. contradictory if you ask me. the "i don't want to be hurt" mentality is one seen by many...but who are we fooling.. women are usually the one doing the hurting. sorry I'm not sorry boys. 


anyway, i sometimes wonder why we cant all get along, why is there a sense of competition in the work place, or on the field, or hell...even at the salon...women are everywhere, and they usually have a perception all their own about how they themselves are perceived. it is my only hope that women stop saying "oh i don't care what people think"...and well..actually feel that way. because trust me boys, we are kinda crazy... sorry bout it. but with that being said...women are caring, they are literally made different by how they think and react, what they feel and how they handle emotion. 


yes, we are complicated, and well... we will be the best mother and friend we can be..most likely better than you. it is all relevant, and sure we are all individuals...but hell.. if you ask me...we all are the same...some are just a little more nuts than the next. good luck boys. i know, you deserve it...but shhh, don't tell 60% of the worlds population i said that.